I’ve been thinking ~ a lot actually ~
about the puzzles of life!
about the puzzles of life!
I’ve always kind of known that I was the one responsible for what happened in my own life, long before I knew anything about the LOA. So when I first started reading books that introduced me to the LOA, it was like a confirmation of what I already knew. It was great!!
And then when you start using it intentionally, well as we all know, that do need some work, guidance and practicing to get on right path. And it helps a lot to have lots of positive like-minded friends to discuss solutions and ways to go about with. That’s one of the reasons why I find FB to be such a good tool and helpful media.
Something that usually is a bit difficult to acknowledge is the fact that we also attracted whatever bad that might be or have been in our life! I’ve gathered some thoughts about this, which I wanted to share and elaborate here.
When I was a teenager, I had this boyfriend for about a year, whom was very jealous and used to beat me up whenever he thought he found a reason. (I would say; there is never a reason to beat someone else up, but that’s another story!)
It has been difficult to accept that at that very point I actually attracted this bad experience into my young life! I was a very happy outgoing sixteen year old, with strong opinions and confidence about my life. Needless to say, during that year I was reduced to a non-confident, scared and depressed person.
Finally, when I dared to face the situation, admit to my family and friends what was going on, having they confirm that this was so not OK, I was able to make a shift in my life, leave him and make a change for the better.
I never got into a physical abusive relationship again, which when I think of it with the knowledge I have now, is very, very good. I learned what I never wanted to attract again, by that I expanded and moved on to better experiences in life.
Here is how I choose to see this; the fact that he was jealous and insecure, was totally all his life experience, which led him to choose to act violent.
The first time he physically abused me, it came as a total surprisingly shock to me. But by staying with him, by being afraid of him and afraid that he would hit me again and again, I guess is the way I attracted more of this.
It has been hard to swallow, but I totally see the logic in this now.
So, my point with this is, as though we do attract bad stuff into our experience, it’s not necessarily like we ask someone to hurt us or for something bad to happen in our life, but we do put ourselves in a situation who leads to another one, who leads to another one and so on, and by not taking action to turn things around as soon as we identify the bad situation, we keep on going downwards in a negative loop so to speak.
Remember it’s always YOU and only YOU who can turn your life around and into a positive flow. And the good news is...... it’s never too late. You can always change, right this minute! It’s your CHOICE!
Wish you all lots and lots of LOVE and LIGHT, ABUNDANCE and POSTIVE FLOW in your lives.
